Tuesday, October 26, 2010

Angry Rant

We all started blogging for a reason. No matter if we came here to just get stuff off our chest or needed support-we all came for a reason. No where in the reason that each of started blogging did we sign up for ridicule, hate & stupidity.

I love this community! I love each & everyone of you & the support you all bring. I love to see the support & comfort each person has for the other. I would stand up for any of you; no matter what too...that is part of this community. I respect the decisions you make or did not make. I respect why you did this or that & if you did what was best for you & your family, I back you 110%.

It has made me VERY sad to see some the hate that has been going on here lately. I am a big believer in everyone having the right to their opinion, but I am also a big believer in what you learned when you were little: if you do not have anything nice to say, do not say anything at all!!

I hate that I feel that I cannot say something I may want to on here because I may have somebody rip me a new one. But I guess since you have the right to leave crappy comments, I too have the right to delete them.

I respect your opinions, but I would hope that you respect my feelings or whoever you feel the need to leave a comment for. There is a way to voice your opinion & not be a complete A$% about it!

I am sorry for those of you that have been dealing with this lately! I may loose a few blog followers because of this post, but if that is the case, then so be it!

I do not want to worry about what I say & I do not want others to either...so please, if you do not agree wit whatever we say, just be as nice as possible about it!

16 comments:

  1. Ugh...totally know the feeling! I had an anon (aren't they the best, they want to leave their opinion but not sign their name to it) and told me I wasn't infertile enough!!! Funny because I'm dropping 15 grand for IVF but I'm not infertile enough!!! People are just mean that's the plain and simple reason, they can't be happy for themselves much less anyone else. Boo on mean people!

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  2. I've noticed this with a few others in our circle. Mostly anonymous hateful comments. I say delete away and don't feel bad about it. It is your blog and you have the right to write and delete what you want. ((Hugs)) Sorry for any ugliness you had to deal with lately.

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  3. Amen sister! I got hit with some awful comments a month ago. Really awful ones. So, now I have to moderate comments which I hate doing. And it gives me pause now about what I write. Which also sucks. I don't get it either. If I don't agree with something someone else posts, I don't leave a comment. I can't even imagine leaving a rude comment. I think the Internet is an easy thing for cowards to hide behind.

    Hang in there.

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  4. I"m sorry you got hit. Delete away - it's your space!

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  5. If there was a like button on this post like on facebook, I totally would hit it. :) I agree with you totally!

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  6. Love these words! Thanks for putting this out there--and damn the trolls and negative nancy comments! Ugh!

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  7. I think it's happened to most of us, that's for sure. I completely agree...if someone doesn't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all!

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  8. I agree too. I have read some nasty comments lately and it is ridiculous. I have also gotten some as well and of course they are all anonymous. Now I moderate my comments and feel like at times I have to moderate my thoughts, which is not fair. People need to find something better to do with their time than leaving nasty anonymous comments.

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  9. You go girl! Thank you for putting this out there and taking a stand against these hateful people. At a time when bullying is a hot topic, I think people need to understand that leaving anonymous, hateful comments is also a form of bullying. What happened to, "If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all"?

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  10. I'm so tired of hearing about all the hate going on in this community! It's not right :-( I've only had a few horrible anon comments, but it hurts like hell.

    Thanks for writing this, I totally agree!

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  11. You go girl! The hate comments really bother me. I've seen it in my own circle of blogger friends and it makes me ill.

    So glad you got these words out there!

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  12. oh, yuck, yuck, YUCK!
    i haven't had to experience this yet (and i hope i never have to!), but it makes me so sad that you've had to deal with this...

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  13. I so hate how it has happened to SO many of us. Makes me sick and livid.

    always here for you my friend *hugs*

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  14. The hate has been driving me insane and making me so sad. That's great that we all have a difference of opinion, but like you said, don't be rude about it! We are all adults and can have a healthy debate.
    *HUGS*

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